How to be good. 2/...
Social life is a very complicated mechanism of separate human beings. Every person has his own thoughts, wishes and expectations. Every single person is a whole unexplored world, that collides with yours. Thousands times a day. Some of these worlds bring you energy, some takes your energy away. We react to this collisions subliminally. Without caring of how the other side changed in this collision. Just think about it: you're now sitting (standing, lying or whatever else you are doing) right next to a human being that is barely differs from you. And they think of you exactly the same things you do. The physics of the world works this way - they actually do. Even when you don't think about it - it works. Like gravity. When you're surrounded by people - you have your influence on them as well as they affect you. All your environment subliminally feel your condition and reflects it. This reflection may not be obvious to you but it always exists. In close relations...
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or with someone you see for the first time and never gonna see again, gravity works.

There are lots of training programs that are hosted by respectable people of psychology that teach us to live a bright life. I guess they call it mirroring. I should say, I never was to any of them. But I think that the core concept that is suggested on such events (or one of the core concepts), is the one that described earlier. If you never thought of people around you as of yourself - probably you need to visit one of those events. Some say - I do try to look at others but they are still who they are. Yes. If you change - not necessarily people around you change (themselves). Most likely people around you change (to other people). Because people usually don't want to change themselves, or don't see a reason to. And of course no one can expect instant results from changing their own point of view. Did you ever mention, how do you interact with sad or rude people? You become sad and rude as well. You don’t actually want to talk, and a person automatically becomes not interesting to you. Gravity. And it’s all up to you, change the power of this gravity to your side, or continue drifting down this river. I choose changes. But not arguing and playing any sort of drama, trying to figure out what happened, or even more trying to change others. Change yourself, change the way you look at things around you and everything comes to a balance. Patience. Good things come to those who wait.
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